Great to hear he is getting thoughtful care from the medical staff and your brother's input. Thoughts with you and him. Hopefully he'll laugh when you tell him this episode helped you get a sense of perspective about your spec
It's funny how communities develop. There's definitely a collection of values you see around here, including the care and support you've seen. My wife does that eye roll thing when I talk about some of the stuff happening on here: "those 'online friends' you've never actually met" as she calls it. Well, they're a pretty decent bunch.