I was worried about the paddle feel too. I managed to test drive an AT last week in Melbourne. Coming from a SC V6 Jag F type, the “click” feeling in the paddle was definitely less (not numbed out)How did the manual shifting of the automatic feel? Some others were a little bothered by the feel of the paddles since there was no click when shifting.
You still have that feeling of a gear change (up/down). The metal quality and position of the paddles were perfect, with your hands naturally at 9 and 3 o’clock position.
The steering wheel girth is not too thick for me and fingers within reach to the paddles. It’s definitely thicker than my BMW M-Sport steering. For those with smaller hands, you might find reaching for the paddle shifts in the 9 and 3 position challenging