When installing the GRP third cat delete, my OEM Lotus exhaust gasket (a braided material) needed replacement, after only about 2,500 miles (4,000 km). See photo below, of both the old and the new Fel-Pro replacement I purchased from GRP. The old one likely fractured in the one area, during removal. I'd suggest always having a replacement handy, given its low cost of about 10 bucks.
The new pipe went in w/o much problem, which suggested it wasn't properly sized, since the Forum install directions said you were "lucky" if it was a difficult fit and you had to repeatedly/slowly wriggle it in. Regardless, I checked the fit and didn't see any gaps. But to be safe, I then applied an exhaust sealant around the joint. It was a challenge reaching around the entire joint, since part of it wasn't that accessible. I now wish I had applied the sealant on the new pipe, before install, to better ensure the sealant made it everywhere. Anyway, I ++ tried to apply sealant everywhere, by reaching around as best I could, to get to the hard-to-reach area.
For sealant, there are several available. I went with the "VersaChem exhaust joint and crack sealer". Others use the "J-B Weld" sealant. They come with different heat ratings but this area isn't exposed to extreme heat, so I didn't think it necessary to pay a premium price for the higher heat rated sealants.
You may wish to use a sealant, even if your pipe joint fits really tight, just in case. Hope this helps and good luck to all those doing this mod.
