So what I'm gathering here so far, is some are disappointed by what the car isn't doing for them to just be in it, rather than what they're doing with it out on the road. Interesting.
For me, if I'm cornering in a, shall we say brisk manner, I've already begun dialing in steering correction as I'm moving through the apex. If I kick out the rear end, it irritates me greatly because it means I've screwed up the corner, and I've now lost momentum and exit speed coming out of the corner. I hate spinning the tires too, as I might as well just take a handful of twenties out of my wallet and throw them out the window. The tires will get enough wear going through the twisties.
My sense of theatre is how does the car respond to what I'm trying to get it to do. My focus is looking through the windshield at the road ahead of me. As for sound, I don't like the exhaust to be loud necessarily, as I prefer tone and sound quality over being loud. I hate exhaust resonance. My desire for the interior is to be comfortable, solid (no rattles), and the controls are responsive and easy to use. The thrill of accelerating from a standing start is something I guess I've outgrown, as I now prefer a smoother start rather than something that will put undue stress on the drivetrain. Once up to speed, I enjoy competent, responsive performance from the car, which I guess would be my definition of 'sporty'.
I'm expecting the Emira to be just the type of car I enjoy driving, but I can see how those who want visual and acceleration drama might be disappointed. When Lotus says "For the Drivers" I take it to mean just that, rather than "For Those Who Want to be Entertained". Nothing wrong with wanting to be entertained, but it's a different dynamic from 'don't distract me, I'm driving'. Watching the recent video of that guy taking the Emira through that rally course, entertainment would be distracting. His focus is 100% on the road ahead and getting the car to respond to his input. In one part of the video he goes on about how good the setup of the shift lever is in relation to the steering wheel; you won't have to worry about it not being exactly and quickly within reach. That's something a driver would be concerned about, rather than how loud the car is or how the interior looks. In that video he's not even looking at the interior. He's a seriously good driver too.
I guess it all comes down to expectations, perceptions and desires. The Emira isn't and isn't going to be for everybody. Probably won't be for most actually, but for those who like to drive and especially momentum driving, it should be a very fun car to drive.