In flesh it just looked a silver to me, nothing like the configurator. My photo in sunlight with pics of white and grey card for anyone who wants to white balance.Bizarrely, that looks nothing like the sample I saw at Parks - I know photos can never be trusted but the silver was not that dark nor warm in tone like that either.
Like you, colours are my business - i have been in the sign industry for 40 years, mixing colour matches by eye from Ral, BS and PMS references for signwriting and painting. I also paint in acrylics on large canvases with painstaking colour matching a key part of my work
We can't both be right so something weird is going on!